Word to Rodney King

It ain't easy being an atheist; seeking logic and truth over fear and judgement; wanting to know what is real and tangible, disowning faith and interpretation. My parent's struggle with my ideologies, what neat little box to put me in, stumps them time and again, and the conversation inevitably arrises on what a hypocrite I am for being atheist and wanting to celebrate Christmas. In ethics we learn that doing the greater good is paramount, religion promises a reward at the end of our human struggle for doing good deeds; be it soul salvation, or enlightened reincarnation. Is being good for fear of landing in hell really being good at all, does that count? Being an atheist means that I have to try and be a good person, just for me, I have to try to treat people right, the first time. There is no soul salvation, no confessional for me to relieve my sins. If I fail in my efforts to be good I have to rely on the forgiveness or forgetfulness of actual human beings, and they can hold some grudges! I do love the core of several religions. I think that many eastern theologies are beautiful in their doctrines, I admire the virtues they posses. We all need rules to live by, guidlines to define who we are, the kind of person we strive to be, the way we should treat others whom share this tiny, insignificant planet with us. How to derive those rules is a personal choice, but is it important to remember that all religions, philosophies, theologies are man-made ideas, so they are inherently flawed, imperfect creations that we should know better than to put all of our faith in. Having beliefs which are too strong leaves little room for questions, for provocative thought, some fresh air. You lose the abilty to change your mind if you believe in anything to strongly. Not believing in God leaves more room for me to have faith in love, family, friends, the goodness of human nature, the infallible comedy of Monty Python, the perfection of a fish taco and a beer, and the joy in making snowmen in your pajamas while your neighboors think you have gone looney. As for Christmas, I just think it is nice to set aside a day to show your appreciation for your friends and family, giving little gifts of gratitude to the people whom you need the most in life is just nice. And the retail community tends to agree.